Question: Is it possible for us to enter into our Scramble when we are experiencing a “yes” to our question but are deeply afraid of losing it and then getting a “no”?
For example: If my PQ is “Am I Loved” and I’m in a situation where someone is meaningfully and deeply meeting me with a Yes and making me feel very seen and known, I can sometimes become anxious about losing that (note: anxious attachment) — so, I “scramble” to prevent the loss/“no”, instead of leaning into and enjoying the “yes” I am currently experiencing.
that’s great awareness and awesome question. i would encourage you to remind yourself of the greater truth of being loved. primal truth living moves from the “question” to the “statement.” am i loved becomes i am loved. this gives us a much more spacious and broad picture of our need being met in many ways and not only by a singular person. celebrate the love you receive from them but know that if they loved you or not, you are still loved. ✌🏻
Thank you for this! When I first heard you speak on that NIA call months ago to reading the book to reading your Substack, the Primal Question framework has just made so much sense. I recommend it to my clients all the time!
Question: Is it possible for us to enter into our Scramble when we are experiencing a “yes” to our question but are deeply afraid of losing it and then getting a “no”?
For example: If my PQ is “Am I Loved” and I’m in a situation where someone is meaningfully and deeply meeting me with a Yes and making me feel very seen and known, I can sometimes become anxious about losing that (note: anxious attachment) — so, I “scramble” to prevent the loss/“no”, instead of leaning into and enjoying the “yes” I am currently experiencing.
that’s great awareness and awesome question. i would encourage you to remind yourself of the greater truth of being loved. primal truth living moves from the “question” to the “statement.” am i loved becomes i am loved. this gives us a much more spacious and broad picture of our need being met in many ways and not only by a singular person. celebrate the love you receive from them but know that if they loved you or not, you are still loved. ✌🏻
Thank you for this! When I first heard you speak on that NIA call months ago to reading the book to reading your Substack, the Primal Question framework has just made so much sense. I recommend it to my clients all the time!
thanks marie! appreciate you. 🙏🏻
So happy to see you here! Loved this perspective and an mmm going to take the quiz now 💜