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Mark Robertson's avatar

I've felt this same way for years. Thanks for saying it Mike!

Mike Foster's avatar

glad it was helpful and confirming. ✌🏻

Maria Cochrane's avatar

Every marriage counselor should pass this on.

Ann's avatar

Thank you so much for this wonderful perspective. The day to day expressions of love and care are what matter the most.

Mike Foster's avatar

agree! 🙌🏻

Adrian's avatar

Well said Mike Foster, and I agree 💯 it’s the micro transactions that are deposited daily that matter.

Mike Foster's avatar

micro and consistent for the win! 😀🙌🏻

Felix Arellano's avatar

This is so good! Thank you. 🙏

Now I want to apply this to Christmas. But I’m afraid I may get crucified for taking it too far. I’ll start with Valentines.

Melissa Miller's avatar

I couldn't have said it better myself. Thank you for putting into words how so many of us feel (and the reason Valentine's Day feels "off" for so many of us). It's not that we don't love our spouses, it's that our definition is different.

Bill Cowell's avatar

You are ABSOLUTELY RIGHT!! We are 38 years and counting, knowing the intimacy of a heart-to-heart connection beats ANY one day grand fling. Here's to 40 and 50...

Sonya's avatar

Great message. Love is showing up in the hard places. It can be sacrificial. It is always genuine and warm.