When I took the assessment I cried the minute the words, am I loved came up. It was like I all of a sudden understood what I didn’t even realize I needed to understand about myself.
I read your list of questions before I did the assessment, and I knew my question immediately! Because I'd felt that since my first move across the country with my family as a kid. It made (most) of my arguments with my husband understandable, and the times I almost cried at work because I thought I might lose my job.
I'm a work in progress for sure, but walking through the steps to answer that question and relying on the Lord to answer that question has been what I've needed to move forward and start finding joy in the last decades of my life.
Am I Loved? is the base question, and it mostly shows up as am I chosen?, am I known?
I first saw reading Henri Nouwen, it was sunshine to the cave I had been living in. That light changed everything. The power of a porn addiction broke instantly. I finally understood the whole why can’t I stop doing what I hate and why can’t I start doing what I wish I did. I finally had strength to face things inside and outside of me.
2 years later I was introduced to Primal Questions and I didn’t bother with the assessment, I jumped straight to the list looking for “Am I Loved” and that was another moment of feeling known, I wasn’t wrong. What I had stumbled onto was validated as true by someone else, and matched my experience.
We often work with foster, adoptive and kinship parents. Nothing reveals our hot buttons like living with a child impacted by developmental trauma. I would love for our parents to understand their primal question!
When I took the assessment I cried the minute the words, am I loved came up. It was like I all of a sudden understood what I didn’t even realize I needed to understand about myself.
Am I secure?
I read your list of questions before I did the assessment, and I knew my question immediately! Because I'd felt that since my first move across the country with my family as a kid. It made (most) of my arguments with my husband understandable, and the times I almost cried at work because I thought I might lose my job.
I'm a work in progress for sure, but walking through the steps to answer that question and relying on the Lord to answer that question has been what I've needed to move forward and start finding joy in the last decades of my life.
Am I Loved? is the base question, and it mostly shows up as am I chosen?, am I known?
I first saw reading Henri Nouwen, it was sunshine to the cave I had been living in. That light changed everything. The power of a porn addiction broke instantly. I finally understood the whole why can’t I stop doing what I hate and why can’t I start doing what I wish I did. I finally had strength to face things inside and outside of me.
2 years later I was introduced to Primal Questions and I didn’t bother with the assessment, I jumped straight to the list looking for “Am I Loved” and that was another moment of feeling known, I wasn’t wrong. What I had stumbled onto was validated as true by someone else, and matched my experience.
We often work with foster, adoptive and kinship parents. Nothing reveals our hot buttons like living with a child impacted by developmental trauma. I would love for our parents to understand their primal question!
...AM.I.UNDERSTOOD.
i think maybe this has always been my question...tho more recently bein' around folks who -don't- seems to have boiled it to the top for me...